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Que sera, sera


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When I was just a little girl
I asked my mother, "What will I be?
Will I be pretty?
Will I be rich?"
Here's what she said to me
"Que será, será
Whatever will be, will be
The future's not ours to see
Que será, será
What will be, will be"
When I grew up and fell in love
I asked my sweetheart, "What lies ahead?
Will we have rainbows
Day after day?"
Here's what my sweetheart said
"Que será, será
Whatever will be, will be
The future's not ours to see
Que será, será
What will be, will be"
Now I have children of my own
They ask their mother, "What will I be?
Will I be handsome?
Will I be rich?"
I tell them tenderly
"Que será, será
Whatever will be, will be
The future's not ours to see
Que será, será
What will be, will be"
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This is not a bad account of one aspect of ancient Stoicism.  What you cannot control (which is just about everything) is not your concern, except to accept it as Fate. Further, this fatalism was combined with a sense that logic proves that the future is determined.  There will either be a sea battle tomorrow or there will not.  One of the two possibilities is now the truth. Thus, it is not even in the admiral's power, if there will be a sea battle tomorrow, to decide that there will not be.
But what is remarkable about the Doris Day song is the middle stretch. 
I understand a mother handing down this Stoic idea to a child. It is a bittersweet lesson but one children must learn one way or another that "the world is largely indifferent to your wishes, kid." And that is what is happening both in the beginning and in the end. 
But if a young woman asks her sweetheart what lies ahead, whether (in effect) his devotion will prove everlasting, he is not well advised to reply "que sera, sera." 
Pro tip for young men: don't try that.     
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