The great positive point for utilitarianism is … it is consequentialist. I do not see how any ethic can be rational if it is not consequentialist. In Star Wars Yoda understands this. It is precisely why he says that there is, for a jedi, no “try.” Either a consequence comes about, or it does not. But the great negative point for utilitarianism is … it has a monistic view of the way consequences are to be evaluated. And this is true quite generally. Whether your preferred form of util is hedonistic, or based on a more abstract notion of satisfaction, whether you evaluate an act or a rule … utilitarianism posits some quality of the consequences of an action-or-rule, X, and says that more of X is always better than less of X. But there is no X. Valuation is pluralistic. In the end we can’t say anything about those things that are good in themselves except that they are good in themselves. Friendship, and more intimate relations, and bonding moments that make them or flow from them, ...